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03 Nov 2026

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Respond with Your Values, Not Your Emotions

Here you are, back in a triggered moment. You've noticed your raised shoulders and tense jaw. You recognize your emotion and take a breath in. As you feel your breath fill your chest, you drop into the small window of choice before you release and act. Your next action could be reactive, with variable results, or one chosen to meet your bigger goals in living the life you want to live. Throughout this series, we’ve explored accepting reality, noticing our emotions, and helping our bodies settle so we can create a pause. Each practice gives us a little more room…

06 Oct 2026

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Reset Your Body and Respond with Clarity

Face flushed, jaw clenched, shoulders raised, and you haven’t taken a full breath in twenty minutes. We have all experienced racing thoughts and felt trapped in reactive loops. These automatic reactions are natural protective instincts, but they can be deeply unpleasant and lead to behavior that doesn’t reflect who we truly are. Though these reactions are not personal failures, how can we keep them from controlling the narrative of our lives? How can we learn to reset and respond with clarity? In our last post, we discussed the simple practice of naming our emotions to improve emotional well-being and experience…

08 Sep 2026

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One Simple Practice to Build Emotional Resilience

We often ask ourselves or others, "How are you today?" and the answer is usually something generic like "Good" or "Tired." But those responses rarely capture what's actually happening beneath the surface. One simple practice to build emotional resilience is to pause each day and ask, "What am I feeling right now?" This small shift in awareness can help us recognize emotions before they change our decisions and behaviors, ultimately shaping our day and, cumulatively, our life. Last month we suggested you start with reality, as acceptance is the path to growth. One of the easiest ways to improve your…

14 Jul 2026

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Start with Reality: Acceptance is the Path to Growth

Have you ever faced a moment in life when what was happening felt difficult or impossible to accept? An unanswered text. Delayed plans. A project falling apart after weeks of effort. Coping daily with a difficult coworker. A family member making a life choice you don't agree with. A relationship ending. Facing a difficult truth about yourself. In each of these moments, we face a reality we didn't want, didn't expect, or we struggle to believe it is happening. Instead of accepting what is happening, we often begin fighting reality. We replay conversations or search for someone to blame. We…

19 May 2026

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The AI Apprenticeship: 5 Ways to Supercharge Your Growth in 2026

In the philosophy we share with our Personal Kaizen community, Rule 6 of our 10 Rules for Life is to Learn and Grow throughout your Life. The moment we stop being students of the world is the moment we begin to stagnate. Traditionally, constant learning and growth required finding the right books, seeking out mentors, or enrolling in expensive courses. But as we write this in early 2026, Artificial Intelligence has shifted the paradigm from "searching for information" to "architecting knowledge." AI is no longer just a chatbot; it is a personalized tutor, a research assistant, and a sparring partner…

06 May 2025

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Get Stronger by Weightlifting Just One Hour Per Week!

I learned in the book, Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity that strength training is as important as cardiovascular exercise. Weightlifting helps support and protect the body, maintains metabolic health, and stimulates the growth of bone. I have wanted to get stronger by weightlifting, but my busy family and work schedule has made it hard to find the time. This post shares the new weightlifting routine I have been tested for the past six months – a routine that has helped me get stronger by weightlifting just one hour per week! I’ll begin by reviewing a few key principles…

08 Apr 2025

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Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity II

Last month we shared part one of our summary of the Peter Attia book, Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity. We described Attia’s focus on healthspan over lifespan; all of us want to maintain an excellent standard of living as we grow older. Part one covered the importance of exercise and strength training. This second half of the book summary shares Attia’s recommendations for: Nutrition, Sleep, Emotional Wellbeing and Detection Why Don’t Doctors Learn Nutrition in Med School? Attia is amazed at how little time he spent in school studying nutrition, yet “you are what you eat.” Attia prefers…

13 Nov 2024

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Key Components to Living a Good Life

Have you ever wondered, "Am I living a good life?" We all have the same 24 hours in a day; however, each and every one of us spends them differently, leading to various outcomes. In this week's post, we're excited to share a TedTalk by neuroscientist Wendy Suzuki and HSBC Global Private Banking and Wealth's CEO, Annabel Spring, where they discuss the key components of living a good life. While watching, be sure to note where you are already meeting the mark and where you may need to improve for a good life! https://www.ted.com/talks/annabel_spring_and_wendy_suzuki_what_makes_a_good_life_a_neuroscientist_and_a_global_financial_ceo_answer?subtitle=en Key Components to Living a Good…

31 Oct 2024

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Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be

I was recently reviewing a book about college admissions. In doing so, I thought it would be good to research the answer to a simple question, “how much does the college you attend matter in your future?” I have three children (two currently in college and one in high school) so I wanted to share my findings with them and others. This post summarizes the research, finding that where you go is not who you’ll be. Read on for some simple advice for high school students and parents navigating the college admissions process. Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll…

07 Aug 2024

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Boredom Sparks Brilliance: How Zoning Out Leads To Great Ideas

In the past, we've shared a few brain hacks for maximum effectiveness. Now, we're excited to share how to make the most of your brain, especially when you're bored! Have you ever found that your most brilliant ideas came about while you're doing mundane tasks such as folding laundry or loading the dishwasher? That's because when feeling bored, your brain goes into what neuroscientist Marcus Raichle calls "default mode" where a network in your brain starts busily thinking and daydreaming. Check out the TedTalk below, where journalist Manoush Zomorodi shares her experience with zoning out and how boredom sparks brilliance! https://www.ted.com/talks/manoush_zomorodi_how_boredom_can_lead_to_your_most_brilliant_ideas…

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